reading Cat's email

Jenni, Anna has told me you have been reading Cat's email's as suspected. You need to understand something as your mother did also. People have privacy boundaries and a right to preserve them. I think your work culture has led you to believe that you have a right to snoop and pry into communication which is the property of others. Three times I asked you to stop snooping through my email. Our daughter is twelve and now thirteen and I'm sure you would do it again so you need to stop it or else it will revisit you later. Maybe if you focussed on supporting people as opposed to controlling them you could let this behaviour go. In only 5 years Cat will be going to some form of schoolies week with drugs and alcohol being present. Through manipulation of the legal system you have removed her Father figure so you better work hard at being both parents and giving her the life skills to cope. She won't have a protected Pat/Jenni Bliss life or grow up in a 1950's style nursing home with nuns. Welcome to modern life Jenni. It's going to become a reality suddenly for you. I'll be ready though.